Trust in yourself

This blog is going to be about trusting and believing in yourself. It's probably one of THE hardest things to do. Mainly because our natural instinct isn't to have confidence in ourselves. Well, at least not after you turn 4 or 5. After you start school you start worrying and doubting yourself. You ask yourself questions like: "Can I do this?" or "Will I fail if I try to do that?" Sometimes we doubt ourselves because we don't want to let anyone down. That's a big one. We don't want to lose anyone because of a stupid thing we did or because we didn't do something. We doubt ourselves so much we start believing all of our negative thoughts. Trust me. I know this from experience....

I doubt myself more than I should. I question everything I do, or am about to do. I don't believe in myself. Or at least I didn't use to. I had to learn to believe in myself and trust that I'll make the right decision. Which wasn't easy for me. But it is better than the alternative. Which, in case you didn't know, is doubting yourself and believing that you'll never make the right decision so it's best if you just make the wrong ones now. But that isn't exactly good...

I'll let you know now it's insanely hard to gain trust, confidence, or to start believing in yourself. But you can do it. Listen to your friends and family members when they compliment you and believe them. Stop caring what others think about you because you are amazing and perfect just the way you are. You should never believe any different. Start writing yourself notes about what you like about yourself. Don't think about the negatives, think about the positives. Everyone has flaws. But everyone also has amazing qualities that people love.

If you have trouble with your self-confidence and it's something you feel you can fix like your hair, weight, or clothing, then talk to your friends and get them to help you change it. Don't complain about yourself and then not do anything about it. Trust me. I know it's hard to change and it's way easier to just complain, but you'll annoy friends and you'll never change that one thing about yourself that can change your life. So do something about. And start trusting and believing in yourself.

You guys are all perfect and amazing in your own ways. Don't you ever forget that. I love and care about you all.

 So, until next time, stay you and love life as well as yourself. Bye. :)

Oh and while you're at it, live long and prosper. :D